Ways You are Scaring Men Off

You think you have found your Mr.Right, but after the first date he seems to have blocked your number. Weeks later when you finally bump into him he doesn't recognize you. Does this happen all too often? Chances are you are unintentionally scaring guys off. But don't worry the problem is fixable once you identify the mistakes that you are making.

Talking marriage from day one:
 That might be your aim eventually, but it’s a good idea to not talk about wedding bells on the first date. Even if you are meeting him for an arranged marriage scenario, make sure you get to know him first before you start talking about kundlis.

Picking fights from day one: 
Of course there are legit things to get mad about, but if you’ve just started dating someone, then getting angry over every little thing sends out the wrong signals.

Constant virtual PDA:
Changing your Facebook status to ‘in a relationship’ after the first date might make you seem too needy. And the constant messaging and hourly calls just add to it.

Making him talk to your family:
  Adding him to your family Whatsapp group post after the first date isn’t a great idea. Also don’t expect him to jump at your suggestion of meeting your family for the next date. We bet the moment you suggest it, he is already thinking of an excuse to run away.

Disliking his friends: 
You might have met then briefly before you started dating, but dissing them on the first date isn’t a great idea. It gives out the idea that in future you won’t let him hang out with people he likes. Needy much?

Comparing him to your ex:
  The first date isn’t a great time to talk about that ex whom you almost married.

Question him too much:  
You want to know each other and questions are inevitable, but asking him ten question before he even had a chance to sit down, is taking things a bit too far.

Saying I Love You too quickly: 
Everyone loves to feel special but hearing these three words on the second date is a little too freaky.

Stalking him:
Accidentally showing up at the same bar where he is hanging out with the boys can’t always be passed off as a coincidence. If he feels that you are going to give him no space, he sure is going to make an excuse and run.